A compilation of the thoughts and actions of a writer with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
Friday, August 26, 2011
Wrecked!
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Virginia Earthquake
Fall Has Got To Be Better Than This...
Saturday, August 20, 2011
I Dream of Fall...
Amsterdam
Paris- Jardin des Tuileries
Reykjavík, Iceland
Krakow, Poland
Gatchina, Russia
I know this isn't a Fall picture, but I can't wait for cooler Fall weather so I can wear trendy boots!
Old Plovdiv, Bulgaria
Provence, France
Sweaters...
Jeans, hats, and tees on a warm day. (*sighs* I wish I looked like that. In order for my tummy to look nonexistent, I would have to wear scary, stomach holding in panties. There, I said it!)
Tuindorp,Utrecht, Netherlands
Mist in London (It ALWAYS seems like Fall in London.)
Ramsau, Bavaria, Germany
Utrecht, The Netherlands
Gordes, France
Fall Fashions!!!
This can’t-miss Mulberry cocktail dress, with its deep v-neck and 70s glamour, would take you from the dance floor to the holidays (and back again). From the Mulberry Pre-Fall 2011 collection, $1,800, at mulberry.com
Prague - The bridges
The Bridge of Sighs, Cambridge, England
AND I'M SPENT...
Thank You, Lori!
R U OK?

Thursday 15 September, 2011 is R U OK?Day. A national day of action that aims to prevent suicide by encouraging Australians to connect with someone they care about and help stop little problems turning into big ones.
On that day we want everyone across the country, from all backgrounds and walks of life, to ask family, friends and colleagues: "Are you OK?".
Staying connected with others is crucial to our general health and wellbeing. Feeling isolated or hopeless can contribute to depression and other mental illnesses, which can ultimately result in suicide. Regular, meaningful conversations can protect those we know and love.
It's so simple but in the time it takes to have a coffee, you can start a conversation that could change a life.
Keeping in touch with others is crucial for our health and wellbeing, helping us to cope with stressful events. And having regular, meaningful conversations is simple; you don't need special training to do it. Here are some helpful pointers from Lifeline to help you connect with someone you think may be doing it tough.
"Are you OK?"
Put the invitation out there: "I've got time to talk"
Maintain eye contact and sit in a relaxed position - positive body language will help you both feel more comfortable
Often just spending time with the person lets them know you care and can help you understand what they're going through
Use open-ended questions such as "So tell me about...?", which require more than a "yes" or "no" answer
You may also like to use the following questions to start a conversation:
- "You know, I've noticed that you've seemed really down/worried/stressed for a long time now. Is there anyone you've been able to talk to about it?"
- "Lots of people go through this sort of thing. Getting help will make it easier"
- "I hate to see you struggling on your own. There are people that can help. Have you thought of visiting your doctor?"
Listen to what a person is saying, be open minded and non-judgemental - sometimes, when someone wants to talk, they're not always seeking advice, but they just need to talk about their concerns
Be patient - let the person take their time
Avoid telling someone what to do: it is important to listen and try to help the other person work out what is best for them
Encourage physical health. Maintaining regular exercise, a nutritious diet and getting regular sleep helps people to cope in tough times
Encourage the person to seek professional help from their family doctor, a support service or counsellor, or a mental health worker
Encourage self-care. Sometimes people need to be encouraged to do more to look after their own needs during a difficult time
What not to do when trying to help someone. It is unhelpful to:
- Pressure them to "snap out of it", "get their act together" or "cheer up"
- Stay away or avoid them
- Tell them they just need to stay busy or get out more
- Suggest alcohol or drugs
- Assume the problem will just go away
One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011
My Take...
Krakow, Poland
I can't wait until Fall! (I'm so going to Poland now...right now!!!!)
On Nice Days...
You should always go for a walk...
On Exercise...
That is, if you want arms like these… or these… OR THESE!
Well, maybe I could use a little help…
That's about how I feel after working out.
On Fashion...
I never know what to wear...
On Shoes...